Dating Coaching

Finding the right one is the most important, and usually the most difficult, task you'll ever face. The only way to find that special someone is through a process called dating.

The Right One
The first, and most important, part of dating is clearly defining what you are looking for. This entails literally making a list of qualities, life goals, beliefs, personality traits, and physical attributes that you are seeking in a significant other. A dating coach will help you define and develop your list, while enabling you to look deep within yourself to discover your true needs and desires in a soulmate. A dating coach will also help you view your list in the context of the realities of dating and marriage.

Meeting
Now you need to meet someone to date. You could do that on your own, through friends, through an online dating site, or with the help of a matchmaker. Each of these methods has benefits and pitfalls.

Do you know where to meet the kind of person you're looking for?
When you find them, how should you approach them?
What do you really know about this person?
Should you trust the personal information they convey to you?
Are your friends actively looking to introduce you to new people, and do they know what you're looking for?

A dating coach will help you develop the confidence and ability to find the right person and successfully approach them. A dating coach will also help you develop a plan of action to market yourself and get others to help market you too.

Dating
Once you've met someone you're interested in, you need to get to know them, and let them get to know you. This stage of dating should be fun and exciting, but it can often turn into a stressful, confusing, and frustrating experience. A dating coach will help you successfully navigate and enjoy this dating stage, while helping you determine whether your date can ultimately become your spouse.

Commitment
The purpose of dating is to find your soulmate. The process shouldn't take more than a few months. If by six to eight months you still cannot decide if you are with the "right one", then you either aren't, or you have something internal that is blocking you from committing. A dating coach will help you make a firm decision regarding continuing or breaking off your relationship, and will help you discover the strength to overcome your obstacles to commitment.